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  • You have one or more children aged between 2 and 16 years.
  • Your Au Pair will be fed, housed and laundered throughout his stay.
  • A minimum of 9m2 private bedroom with a window to the outside will be made available for him/her.
  • You give her/him access to a private or shared bathroom.
  • You establish a proper contract with your Au Pair defining the length of stay and conditions (Be aware that the contract has changed since March 1st 2019)
  • Your Au Pair’s salary or 'pocket money' is 90 euros minimum per week for 25h work.
  • If the stay is longer than 3 months for a non european au pair, your au pair will have to apply for a visa "jeune au pair" (the procedure has changed since March 1st 2019). BUTRFLY will help you in the whole process.
  • You must give him at least one day off per week, preferably fixed, and one full week end in the month.
  • You will cover the health insurance policy of your au pair during her stay.
  • If the car is necessary, you will have to provide him/her with an insured one.
  • An Au pair participates in housework but can not be regarded as a housekeeper.
  • The Au Pair will have to follow language courses, close to home. We will provide a list of organizations and associations.
  • The round trip from his home country is the responsibility of the Au Pair and you can agree to participate.
  • The language courses are usually the responsibility of the Au Pair and you can participate.


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An Au pair is a foreigner aged between 18 and 30 years with the objective of learning a new language and discover a new culture. She / he necessarily loves children!

« Above all, accept and consider your Au Pair as a member of your family! Communicate on what you expect from him/her and encourage him to share his feelings. The Au Pair you will welcome could be your child who will one day leave the cocoon to explore new horizons. So, open your door as you would open your arms to your child and the Au Pair will quickly becomes the big brother or big sister of the family. »